You really do need to look back to see your story and how it unfolded, appreciate how far you have come. Give it the recognition and the confirmation that what you mapped out and the intentions that you set have come together.
You remember that day, so well when you set your target and believed that the intended actions you designed will lead you to what you desire.
You believed them to be true when you set your target but wait you do go through some tough times and here you are on the other side of tough , so sweet, when you have faced the fear and the challenges and are able to pull out the belief skills and strategies to come out and go, yeah I did okay!
So, when it is right in front of you, you are living with what you desired, it is great time for a celebration jig.....and away you go again, ready to set more and keep on strengthening what is possible.
How did I get here? Well, here is what I have in my basic life aids kit for strengthening what is possible.
1. Stock up on love habits
Some of our habits we just have and don't know where they came from but without much effort they have become a part of our everyday unconscious living. Pull apart your day and fit in some habits that will make a difference for the better. Start small but remain consistent until it is just the way it is for you.
Lean on gratitude as it is the attitude that creates a love habit and settles into being a part of your core.
2. Self love and personal strengths
Talk to yourself with love affirmations. Be very aware when criticism and comparing come to your mind, as this is your cue to repeat your special love affirmations. Breathe them in and let the words settle in the cells of your body. Be prepared by writing your very long list of your strengths, quirks and abilities, know them, add to them.
I am a perfect imperfect human. My fears work as a safety warning and when I connect to what I fear, I can soothe the area that needs my attention. It does not have a hold on who I am or what I do. I am not happy all the time but I am resilient. We all have many parts that make us complete....the light and dark, anger and love, sad and content and so much more.
Know yourself and allow self love to strengthen your resolve to remain focused on solutions.
3. Expand your understandingIntellectual, emotional and spiritual growth is the essence of every desire you create. I would not be who I am without the great authors and teachers who have shown me better ways. The encouragers, the enablers, the patient, kind people who are devoted to bringing information and knowledge to life for me. When I look back over even the last 5 years it is the books I have read, the people I meet, the places I visited that have expanded my understanding and challenged my assumptions and helped me create my intentions and path to goals.
Learning is a basic life tool that is to be encouraged and nurtured. Don't take it for granted.